June 7, 2026

Taming the Tongue

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Passage: James 3:1-12
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Introduction

  • What is the most dangerous job in the world?
    • Fishing and logging
  • James highlights the dangers involved
    • He gives teaching about the dangers of speaking
    • This teaching follows straight after his teaching about good works
    • We are to bear fruit
    • This is an outworking of an inward change – salvation by faith alone
  • A logical progression
    • Do not desire to be a teacher
    • Teachers have a stricter judgment
    • Teachers handle the word of God and speak
    • However, this is not just for teachers

Who is a teacher?

  • The Greek means a teacher or master
    • Someone authoratative who can instruct the people in God’s word
      • E.g. Rabbi’s in James’ time
        • But someone of the Rabbi’s in Jesus’ time were poor teachers
    • Jesus gives the example of being servant minded
      • Church leadership and teaching requires humility
      • Such answer not to men but to God
      • It is a burdened blessing
    • We must rely on Christ
      • Pray for those who serve the Church
  • What is the stricter judgment?
    • First for the false teacher
    • Second for the faithful teacher
      • Leaders are subject to a stricter judgment because they are handling the word of God
      • We must all handle Scripture aright – because it is supremely powerful

A broader discussion about the tongue

  • We all use the tongue (not just teachers)
    • We all stumble
    • James speaks strongly about speech
      • Jesus said "Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man; but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man." (Matt 15:11)
  • Not just speaking about avoiding swearing or blasphemy
    • Does our speech honour God?
    • Does our speech reflect God’s love?
  • Our speech often shows our fallen nature
    • It is reflective of our thoughts and attitudes
    • Especially when we are tired or stressful
  • How is our speech to be?
    • Eph 4:29 – "Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."
      • To be uplifting (even when correcting)
      • Grace and tenderness (even when correcting)
    • This is challenging and why Scripture exhorts us to be slow to speak
      • We are to be reflective
      • Jesus is our example (e.g. the road to Emmaus) – He speaks with tender authority
      • Luke 4:22 – "So all bore witness to Him, and marveled at the gracious words which proceeded out of His mouth. And they said, “Is this not Joseph’s son?"
  • Often we judge people (and people may judge us)
    • Do you feel you have done something that irreparably damaged your witness?
    • Our past does not disqualify us for our role in the Kingdom
      • Example of Peter
    • Though there are consequences for our actions

How would those around us characterise our speech?

  • James is speaking about perfection and completiton
    • v2 and v8 – but this is not humanly possible
      • Three examples: rudder, bit, fire
      • Explanation
  • v6
    • A complicated verse
    • Speaking about the physical body (not the body of Christ)
    • The tongue can set on fire/ruin our whole life
  • In chapter 4 James speaks about slandering, in chapter 5 about grumbling
  • Our speech is important
    • It has power to damage the body of Christ/the Church
    • We must look to the speech of our Captain of salvation – Jesus Christ
    • We must pray for God’s help in our speech
    • We are not to speak kind words to have favour
    • Our speech is to be a reflection of our salvation
  • v8-9
    • Humans are made in God’s image
      • Therefore, an insult against people is an insult against the creator God
      • On what basis do we condemn others?
    • Christ went to the cross for mankind
      • The gospel is for everyone
      • Does our speech reflect His sacrifice?
  • Only the Lord can contain our tongue
    • This is a challenging topic
    • How will be different to the world around us?
    • How will our speech reflect Christ?