October 12, 2025

Self Control

Preacher:
Passage: 2 Peter 1:1-11, Galatians 5:13-26
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Introduction

  • 2 Peter 1 – we come to v5-6
    • Faith is the starting point
    • Reading v5-7
  • God wants us to be mature in our faith
    • Continually growing
    • To be like the Lord Jesus
    • To be conformed to the image of the Lord Jesus
    • We have to work out our salvation with fear and trembling in the strength of God and by His grace
    • If we are growing – we will know Christ all the better and this will abound to the fruit of God (v8)
  • The passage is not to be taken like a stepwise ladder
    • To keep progressing rung by rung
    • Instead it is a tree with fruit on different branches that needs to ripen together
  • If we are not growing we are stagnating and show:
    • Lacking discernment
    • Acting in the flesh, arguing, quarrelling
    • Lacking self-control
  • Considering self-control this week
    • Be careful with knowledge – examples
    • About the mastery of self
      • Not just losing our temper, over-eating, temptation
        • It is much bigger than this
      • To not be controlled by your emotions
        • Though we do need the above
      • To say no to things that do not help
      • To say yes to righteousness
        • Only by the power of the Holy Spirit
      • To master your tongue / body / mind
        • To pray for God for help (James 1:5)
      • The mastery of self – coming under the Lordship of Christ
      • Quote – "Self is our number one problem"
        • We are to deny ourselves and take up our cross
      • Quote from Augistine
        • The issue is within
  • Overview:
    • Know yourself
    • Know the grace given to you
    • Know how to practice self-control

Know yourself

  • v10 – if you want assurance, these qualities must be part of your life
    • You must be honest over what is lacking
  • Examples – laziness, overwork, lust, gossip, greed, ‘comfort’ tasks
    • God has given us things to richly enjoy – but do not over indulge
    • Examples from 2 Peter 2:13-14, 10
  • Identify the areas where you need to exercise self-control

Know the grace [of God] given to you

  • Not to rely on worldly slogans/ways
  • You must replace the things of the world with Godly things
    • Otherwise you will fall back to worldly ways
    • It is God’s grace that brings salvation and enables to say no to sin/yes to righteousness – Titus 2:11-12
  • When tempted to sin/sinning – come to calvary to remember/find the grace of God

Know how to practice self-control

  • Prov 16:32 – "He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city."
  • Example of benefits of self-control
  • Prov 25:28 – "Whoever has no rule over his own spirit Is like a city broken down, without walls."
  • Gal 5:16-18
    • Walk in the spirit – love, do good, be kind, forgive
    • Not trying in your own strength
  • Gal 5:22-24
    • We must exercise the fruit of the Spirit
  • In the Spirit of God, praying for grace and wisdom
    • "You sow a though and reap an action, you sow an action and reap a habit, you sow a habit and reap a character"
    • We must establish good habits and develop Christ like character
  • Those who are addicted need professional help
    • Yet the Lord can help us
  • Paul talked about self-control
    • Do not be like Felix – deal with things with God speaks to us

Closing Remarks